Now don't get me wrong, I'm not weird or anything like that, but please stop telling me to enjoy being single because “one day” I might find myself with a husband, youngsters and a house with a mortgage, being single is beginning to wear on me. I have been single for 22 years, single is my closest companion, I have had more relationship problem's than relationships, I would love to have a relationship with someone other than my cat, college dating can by trying at best. Why does it seem like everyone around me is winning at the game of love except me, I'm so sick and tired of loving and losing, maybe I should just except the fact that in the game of love, I'm a loser!
I once asked a friend (no not my dog), but rather a college friend how she does it, I explained to her that when I go to meet people at parties, the other girls seem to have no problem approaching the guys, but every time I go after one that I'm attracted to, someone else comes along and grabs him, what should I do. Her answer was to ask me if I would let someone elbow me out of line at the bank. I replied I would elbow them and shove them back in line to wait their turn. She said wonderful, the next time some babe tries to take your man just kick her ass, grab the guy and make him yours. Maybe I should have asked my dog.
College guys are a complete mystery to me, I'm a smart attractive coed but they act like I have two heads. The ones I do go out with are only interested in sex, for many college guys you have to shell out or get out, so I'd rather get out.
But its not just females that have problems, there are college guys who have problems with coeds. It seems if you won't get in the sack with them they think you are a wuss, its too bad because most people have more to offer than just sex. The guys tell me that a lot of the college girls expect them have sex with them off the get go and if they shows any signs of reluctance she trashes them to her friends. These are nice guys that respect women and don't just think of them as an easy piece, why can't these girls see that these men will not accept this sort of treatment.
However there might be a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow, several of the guys and girls have decided to join several of the more successful online college dating sites. There have been some real success stories floating around about how guys and girls met their soul mates on these sites. They said the people on these sites don't care how much money you have and they are interesting to talk to and any sex is just part of the total package, they're decent people, and college students like us. They have a dream of making something of themselves. They plan to meet and settle down with the person of their dreams. My best friend met his future wife on an online college dating site, I was surprised because it happened so quickly, that they were an item before I knew he was going to join an online dating site.
My friends have been so successful that I have decided to try it for myself. My friends have given me a 'college dating sites' link to try. This is where they started and they recommend it to everyone. Who knows maybe I'll finally find someone who is caring and decent. If you are in college and or looking to find someone to help make your college experience a little better why don't you follow this link:
Dating College Women
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