For a great deal of lesbians, finding the love of your life can be as easy as going online to a lesbian dating website (or even some more general purpose online dating sites) and creating an true profile that is interesting to others, and then just sit back and wait for them to come to you. It is actually that easy but you should also continue taking your own pro-active steps to meet someone. Look at other people's profiles and reach out to them via chat or email on the site. You will likely find some really interested women to connect with. On top of that, you may find some ideas that you might want to capitalize on and add to your profile. After all, if something in someone else's profile catches your eye, then something similarly phrased in your profile will likely catch someone else's eye as well. A big majority of lesbians are often exposed to different types of groups of people as they go about social, work or other events of importance in their lives. If you are someplace where you already have things in common with many of the people present these could be good places to meet someone new and get a relationship started.
A common mistake that a lot of lesbians make when having their first relationship is rushing into things too quickly. Before you end up waking up next to someone you hardly know. Go out together for a while, get to know each other to find out if you have anything in common. You need to have some common interests, values and plans for the future that will compliment each other. Share things with each other, if you get a new job, if a family member has a baby, a party is planned, a kudos you might have gotten, be sure to involve your partner, they are not only your lover, they are your best friend.
If you are at a family gathering or with friends and someone starts telling gay and lesbian jokes that are in bad taste and insulting to you and your partner, and you see your partner is disgusted by it, just get up and leave, tell them you came to enjoy yourselves not to listen to a lot of trash about how other people live their lives|One awkward situation would be to find yourselves at a social or family gathering and hear people dissing the gay and lesbian community at large. This will require you to make a stand and let people know that you will not tolerate statements of that nature. Insult them if you have to. Hopefully your family and friends understand your sexuality so you can then tell them that you are not at all amused at what was said, and that if they think your way of life is something to be made fun of and make jokes about then please don't expect you and your partner to attend any more get togethers. After all, who needs to go anywhere and be made to feel bad.
When it comes to your partner, make sure that you involve have them meet your family and friends as much as possible. This is an important step to establishing and keeping a relationship.
From a purely sexual perspective, being a lesbian, you already understand just how sexual a lesbian can be. Since both are female, lesbians can typically keep each other sexually satisfied for hours at a time. Men seldom last longer than 30 minutes, so that pretty much means that lesbians are God's chosen people when it comes to sexual satisfaction. When one woman is making love to another woman each just naturally knows which enjoyment buttons to press for each other. Gay men have a similar advantage, but too bad about the aids specter. Sex is the one area where a lesbian or gay relationship just runs circles around the hetero types.
The lesbian life is the best that there is, so love your life and live it to the max. Live, love and share your life with others, and try to surround yourselves with loving and caring family and friends who accept you for what you are and will be there for you at any time should you need them.
Just remember people are always a little uneasy about things they really don't know a lot about so try to stick with those who have a positive attitude. Since you are lesbians, then it would be best if many of your friends are from the lesbian community. Open minded heterosexual friends are tough to find, so if you have a few, cherish them and nurture them.
Just remember that after God created Adam and Eve, she realized her mistake and gave Eve a lesbian friend to keep her happy. Adam was such a domineering sexual schmuck after all.
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