Wonderful But Weird

Well where do I start?

I had been out of a two year relationship for a short time. My brother called and told me that he needed me to go out with his girlfriend's brother as a favor. I really did not want to get involved with anyone so soon. However, he assured me that he had met the guy and he was different from most of the guys I had dated over the years. He made is sound like his girlfriend would really be pissed at him if I did not go, so I found myself agreeing. He told me that he would call me and let me know where to meet this guy, he asked me to please be nice to him as he didn't want any flack from his girlfriend. I told him that I was always a lady, just that some guys did not deserve that I act much like a lady. As long as he behaved himself, so would I. Later that night he emailed me this guys photo,”WOW” he was gorgeous! So what was wrong with him?

We talked on the phone and decided to meet at a local chain restaurant not far from me. As I walked in, he stood up and signaled me over to our table. It was nice that he had came early enough to arrange for that ahead of time. At least he was considerate. I knew it was him from the photo I had seen but he looked even better in person. When I got to the table, he introduced himself, and we sat down to read the menus that were already sitting there. 

When the waiter came over, he asked me what I would like to eat. We both ordered the chicken and ribs. We had a nice Pinot Grigio with our supper. After we ate, we just sat around talking while we finished the wine. We both drank sparingly because we both seemed to want the evening to last. He was both funny and articulate. Even considering the fact that it was a first date, I had one of the best times that I have ever had. He was so easy to talk to, likely because we had so many interests in common. I just could not believe that it was happening to me. I was already starting to fall for him. As we were leaving, he offered to drive me home. On the way, I was forward enough to ask him if he was doing anything the next night. He took the hint and asked me out. I was ecstatic.

 For the next two weeks we were either talking on the phone or chatting online, then he asked if I would like to go away for the weekend to his cabin. Of course I jumped at the chance to go away with him, it was going to be the weekend of my dreams. The day started early as he picked me up at 6:00 a.m. We stopped at a neighborhood McDonalds for an couple of egg McMuffins and coffee. Then we proceeded to on our way. I could not get over the vistas as we traveled. A rolling landscape changed to mountains with green coniferous trees and deep blue lakes. We finally arrived after a three hour drive. The cabin was really something, small but cozy as well as very romantic. It was small, only one bedroom. It had a single fireplace in the middle that was up to the task of heating the entire building.

 The night was heavenly. We made love for hours. His stamina was one of the best things about him, and he knew exactly what buttons to push to keep me at a high pitch. I have never had so many orgasms. I was exhausted when I finally fell asleep, and the morning came way to soon.

And then my elation evaporated! I had always been a bit suspicious of him, especially at first. But this had been lulled over the last few weeks. As my eyes fully opened, I realized that he was not in bed with me. I turned over and saw him. And stared! He was standing there wearing my discarded unmentionables. And they were way too tight on him. I was grossed out! As I stared, he informed me that he liked to cross dress once in a while, and asked me if it turned me on. I informed him that it didn't and he had better give my stuff back.

I had to chase him around to get my things. While doing so I decided that this had to end. Maybe there was someone out there for him, but it sure as hell wasn't me. After packing, we had a very quiet three hour drive back. It seemed to take forever.When I got in the door, the first thing I did was to through out the bra and panties that he had sullied and then I took a long hot shower in an effort to purge my soul of him.

Why me? It was the last time I let my brother fix me up with anybody.

I was depressed for quite a while, and then decided to take matters into my own hands to turn things around. Rather than rely on friends for dates, I joined an online dating site. I dated a few guys before I finally found someone that I bonded with. I am going steady with a guy who may not be the Greek god of male beauty, but he is funny and reliable. I am head over heels in love with him. And guess what? He does not wear my clothes!

If your interested in finding a great guy like I did just follow the link below

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Dating In College

Now don't get me wrong, I'm not strange or anything like that, but please stop telling me to enjoy being single because “one day” I might find myself with a husband, youngsters and an expensive apartment, being single is beginning to wear on me. I am tired of being single, single is my closest friend,  I have had more relationship problem's than relationships, I want to have a relationship with someone other than my chia pet, college dating can by trying at best. Why does it seem like everyone else is successful in relationships but me, I'm so sick and tired of loving and losing, maybe I should just except the fact that in the game of love, I'm a loser!

I asked a close companion once (no not my gold fish), but rather a college friend how she does it, I told her that when I go to get togethers, other women seem to have no problem connecting with guys, but every time I go after one that I'm attracted to, someone else comes along and grabs him, what should I do. Her answer was to ask me what I would do if someone tried to line jump in front of me. I replied I would grab them and tell then to get in line and wait their turn like everyone else. She said good, the next time some babe tries to rob you of your man play thing just kick her ass, slide up to the hot dude of your dreams and make him slobber all over you. Maybe I should have asked my gold fish.

College guys are a complete mystery to me, I'm a smart attractive college girl but they act like I am the toe jamb in their shoes. The ones I do go out with are only interested in sex, for a lot college guys you have to put our or get the hell out, so I'd rather get out.

But its not just college girls who have problems, there are college dudes who do not seem to play well with college babes. It seems if you won't get in the sack with them they think you are gay, its too bad because even though sex is an amazing thing, there is just so much more to life and relationships than just boinking each other. The guys tell me that many of the coeds want them have sex with them off the get go and if they shows any signs of reluctance she tells her friends that they are narcissists and into self sexual satisfaction. Most of these poor unfortunates are great guys that are just the type of guy that you would want to have a life with and don't just think of them as an easy piece, why can't these women see that these men will not accept this sort of handling.

However there might be a silver lining to this cloud, several of the guys and girls have decided to go online to some of the college dating sites they've heard about and sign up.. There have been some real success stories floating around about how guys and girls met their soul mates on these sites. People on these sites could care less what color your hair is and they're not just interested in a good time in bed, they're fantastic people, and college students like us. They have a dream of making something of themselves. They hope to meet the person of their dreams and settle down to a long future together. One of my friends actually met his fiance on a college dating site, I had no idea at the time what he was up to or how they found each other.

My friends have been so successful that I have decided to try it for myself.  My friends told me about this site they found that lists and ranks a bunch of online dating sites, and they have an entire page on just college dating sites. This is where they started and they recommend it to everyone. Who knows maybe I'll finally find someone who is caring and decent. If you are in college and or looking to find someone to help make your college experience a little better why don't you follow this link:

College Dating

Adult Chat Line

Do you know what a chat line is? They are essentially a way for people to communicate, either by phone, or via video chatting online. Some services will allow you to chat with several people at once. There are also global chat services that leverage the power of the Internet. Most of these chat line services are for people looking for friendship, relationships, and even sex. Although phone chat lines have been around for over 20 years, they are starting to become more popular again. It can be a little confusing deciding which service to use, so choose carefully.

                                        Telephone Chatting

If you have never used a chat service, you are in for a surprise as to how easy it is. Simply call a phone number (which is usually local and therefore not subject to long distance charges), record your personal ad so other people can see if they want to connect with you even if you are not online. At that point, you simply sit back and start chatting with other people. It is almost like being on an old time party line where you can hear other peoples conversations.

Why do people like phone chat so much? Well here are a few reason's:

1)Chat lines are just about the easiest way to interact with other people. It is a form of communication that we have all grown up with and are all proficient at.
2)With phone chat lines they allow people to record their own personal ad, that gives you the opportunity to listen to as many as you want and decide for yourself which ones you would like to contact. You will also have the chance to set up your own verbal advertisement to sell yourself, as the interesting person that you are, to others.
3)Chat lines are most effective in a local setting, both from a cost and a successful match point of view. As such, most chat services are totally geared to your locality. This is not always easy to do these days, people just don't have the time on their hands they used to have so phone chat lines are very convenient. This is why so many people prefer them.
4)Phone chat lines give you the opportunity to use their live chat to talk to someone that you have something in common with and someone that may interest you. This is a good way to get to know them so you can decide if you want to take it a step further and actually meet them in person.
5)You are completely anonymous, and nobody is ever going to be able to hack your phone on a chat line. It is simply one of the safest and worry free forms of meeting people.
6)With phone chat lines you can send as well as receive messages from people  who are also members so it becomes much easier to communicate with people you are interested in.

Phone chat lines will always be around and will always be popular for those looking to meet someone interesting and special, and for those just looking for someone they can call friend and share a few laughs with .



                                   Online Chat

Online chatting has been considered a tremendous success when it comes to starting a long term friendship or relationship. Everyday more people are turning to the Internet to find  other people like themselves also looking for that special somebody, someone who shares  the same passions, interests and goals. Some are very much interested in finding their life partner and chatting is a good way to break the ice and is seen as a good starting point. Over the years many adults have found genuine loving relationships that actually lead to happy marriages, most of these happy endings were started by the simple act of chatting.
There are several advantages to online chat such as:

1)You can be completely anonymous and feel safe knowing that you only give out as much info about yourself as you want.
2)You have the possibility of connecting with just about any person of the opposite sex anywhere in the world.
3)If you're gay or lesbian its nice to know that there are hundreds of chatting sites you can use to connect to other gays and lesbians seeking someone to share your life with.
4)You can connect solely with people who have the same interests and passions as yourself.
5)You can also learn about other country’s and cultures by chatting with people online from other parts of the world. You also have the opportunity to exchange photo's and even recipes from other country’s, think of the possibilities, there have been a lot of long term relationships made by people from other country's who met on an online chat site.
6)Online chat lines have such a wide appeal for not only singles but seniors, married couples, adults, christian singles, lesbians, gays the list goes on. You can use online chat lines to connect to long lost friends as well as family members you may have lost contact with over the years, the possibilities are absolutely endless.
7)With online chat you don't necessarily have to be looking or a relationship with someone, you can use online chat to meet and start long term friendships with people in your own town or from around the world.

Online Chat as well as Phone Chat also have their disadvantages, these are a few things to remember when using either one.

1)People can hide their true identity.
2)People can lie about their marital status.
3)People can be dishonest about their age and sex.
4)People can hide their true character.
5)People can hide their true intentions.
6)People can also hide and lie about their criminal background.
7)People online can be a sexual predator so be careful before meeting

Never the less, using reasonable caution, you will find phone chatting a lot less risky than talking to someone in a bar. So if you have educated yourself  and think you are ready for Online or Phone chat, then go ahead,  enjoy yourself, have fun and be safe. Please find below a link to a site that lists chat sites. It is one of the best places to find great chat services.

http://www.top100datingpersonals.com/videodating.php

Dating In College

Now don't get me wrong, I'm not weird or anything like that, but please stop telling me to enjoy being single because “one day” I might find myself with a husband, youngsters and a house with a mortgage, being single is beginning to wear on me. I have been single for 22 years, single is my closest companion,  I have had more relationship problem's than relationships, I would love to have a relationship with someone other than my cat, college dating can by trying at best. Why does it seem like everyone around me is winning at the game of love except me, I'm so sick and tired of loving and losing, maybe I should just except the fact that in the game of love, I'm a loser!

I once asked a friend (no not my dog), but rather a college friend how she does it, I explained to her that when I go to meet people at parties, the other girls seem to have no problem approaching the guys, but every time I go after one that I'm attracted to, someone else comes along and grabs him, what should I do. Her answer was to ask me if I would let someone elbow me out of line at the bank. I replied I would elbow them and shove them back in line to wait their turn. She said wonderful, the next time some babe tries to take your man just kick her ass, grab the guy and make him yours. Maybe I should have asked my dog.

College guys are a complete mystery to me, I'm a smart attractive coed but they act like I have two heads. The ones I do go out with are only interested in sex, for many college guys you have to shell out or get out, so I'd rather get out.

But its not just females that have problems, there are college guys who have problems with coeds. It seems if you won't get in the sack with them they think you are a wuss, its too bad because most people have more to offer than just sex. The guys tell me that a lot of the college girls expect them have sex with them off the get go and if they shows any signs of reluctance she trashes them to her friends. These are nice guys that respect women and don't just think of them as an easy piece, why can't these girls see that these men will not accept this sort of treatment.

However there might be a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow, several of the guys and girls have decided to join several of the more successful online college dating sites. There have been some real success stories floating around about how guys and girls met their soul mates on these sites. They said the people on these sites don't care how much money you have and they are interesting to talk to and any sex is just part of the total package, they're decent people, and college students like us. They have a dream of making something of themselves. They plan to meet and settle down with the person of their dreams. My best friend met his future wife on an online college dating site, I was surprised because it happened so quickly, that they were an item before I knew he was going to join an online dating site.

My friends have been so successful that I have decided to try it for myself.  My friends have given me a 'college dating sites' link to try. This is where they started and they recommend it to everyone. Who knows maybe I'll finally find someone who is caring and decent. If you are in college and or looking to find someone to help make your college experience a little better why don't you follow this link:

Dating College Women