Wonderful But Weird

Well where do I start?

I had been out of a two year relationship for a short time. My brother called and told me that he needed me to go out with his girlfriend's brother as a favor. I really did not want to get involved with anyone so soon. However, he assured me that he had met the guy and he was different from most of the guys I had dated over the years. He made is sound like his girlfriend would really be pissed at him if I did not go, so I found myself agreeing. He told me that he would call me and let me know where to meet this guy, he asked me to please be nice to him as he didn't want any flack from his girlfriend. I told him that I was always a lady, just that some guys did not deserve that I act much like a lady. As long as he behaved himself, so would I. Later that night he emailed me this guys photo,”WOW” he was gorgeous! So what was wrong with him?

We talked on the phone and decided to meet at a local chain restaurant not far from me. As I walked in, he stood up and signaled me over to our table. It was nice that he had came early enough to arrange for that ahead of time. At least he was considerate. I knew it was him from the photo I had seen but he looked even better in person. When I got to the table, he introduced himself, and we sat down to read the menus that were already sitting there. 

When the waiter came over, he asked me what I would like to eat. We both ordered the chicken and ribs. We had a nice Pinot Grigio with our supper. After we ate, we just sat around talking while we finished the wine. We both drank sparingly because we both seemed to want the evening to last. He was both funny and articulate. Even considering the fact that it was a first date, I had one of the best times that I have ever had. He was so easy to talk to, likely because we had so many interests in common. I just could not believe that it was happening to me. I was already starting to fall for him. As we were leaving, he offered to drive me home. On the way, I was forward enough to ask him if he was doing anything the next night. He took the hint and asked me out. I was ecstatic.

 For the next two weeks we were either talking on the phone or chatting online, then he asked if I would like to go away for the weekend to his cabin. Of course I jumped at the chance to go away with him, it was going to be the weekend of my dreams. The day started early as he picked me up at 6:00 a.m. We stopped at a neighborhood McDonalds for an couple of egg McMuffins and coffee. Then we proceeded to on our way. I could not get over the vistas as we traveled. A rolling landscape changed to mountains with green coniferous trees and deep blue lakes. We finally arrived after a three hour drive. The cabin was really something, small but cozy as well as very romantic. It was small, only one bedroom. It had a single fireplace in the middle that was up to the task of heating the entire building.

 The night was heavenly. We made love for hours. His stamina was one of the best things about him, and he knew exactly what buttons to push to keep me at a high pitch. I have never had so many orgasms. I was exhausted when I finally fell asleep, and the morning came way to soon.

And then my elation evaporated! I had always been a bit suspicious of him, especially at first. But this had been lulled over the last few weeks. As my eyes fully opened, I realized that he was not in bed with me. I turned over and saw him. And stared! He was standing there wearing my discarded unmentionables. And they were way too tight on him. I was grossed out! As I stared, he informed me that he liked to cross dress once in a while, and asked me if it turned me on. I informed him that it didn't and he had better give my stuff back.

I had to chase him around to get my things. While doing so I decided that this had to end. Maybe there was someone out there for him, but it sure as hell wasn't me. After packing, we had a very quiet three hour drive back. It seemed to take forever.When I got in the door, the first thing I did was to through out the bra and panties that he had sullied and then I took a long hot shower in an effort to purge my soul of him.

Why me? It was the last time I let my brother fix me up with anybody.

I was depressed for quite a while, and then decided to take matters into my own hands to turn things around. Rather than rely on friends for dates, I joined an online dating site. I dated a few guys before I finally found someone that I bonded with. I am going steady with a guy who may not be the Greek god of male beauty, but he is funny and reliable. I am head over heels in love with him. And guess what? He does not wear my clothes!

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These Shoes Were Made For BDSM

Where will women's foot fashion go next.

Women around the world are squishing their footsies into bondage booties and wandering around the various pathways in their lives looking like something out of some kinky skin flick.

It would seem that the fembots of fashion have determined that bondage BDSM chic has supplanted heroin chic thus making women everywhere look as if their feet have been ensnared by intertwining snakes.

In many locals, women’s shoes have evolved into something the Boston Strangler would wear if he were into cross-dressing. Even the fashion blogs have trouble describing these bondage booties for BDSM babes.

Bondage and BDSM is the basis for this crazy ride on the wild side of fashion. Probably this is just the natural (unnatural?) outcome after the punk chic types of female role models you see in the recording industry. One blog, takes the wraps off the whole sordid affair: “Like so many other things that were only recently considered too sexually charged to see the light of day, in a few short years the leather harness has infiltrated the realms of what we consider fashionable.”

Gotta love that if you are a warm blooded male!

The tentative beginnings of BDSM fashion a couple of years ago was simple leather clothes and metal accessories.  Now it has moved on to leather harnesses reminiscent of Ilsa of the SS. Soon, every self-respecting personal assistant will feel the compulsion to parade in the office in jack boots, a leather uniform and dual whips. Every boss's fantasy I am sure.

Perhaps there will soon be a whole line of de rigueur workplace accouterments!
New catalog offerings might consist of: captive visitor chairs, whipping posts, leather whips, prisoner stocks, and tie down desks! What better way to discipline recalcitrant employees! Just think about it! If you hire the right types of people up front, they might actually enjoy the exercise rather than complain to the local labor board! This could be an entirely new job perk, both for subby employees and dom bosses.

I guess my mind has wandered too much as I see this poor wretches hobble along. I cannot help but wonder though. What the heck are you women thinking about?  Boycott this crap! You have nothing to lose but your bodycon, leather, studs and chains (not to mention your harnesses)! Run, don't walk to the closest white cross shoe outlet and get some sensible shoes back in your life!

Generations of women fought for equality in the workplace, for control over their own bodies and for a right to self-determination. But did that fight include the right to orthopedic surgery? I suppose it must have since so many women seem so hell bent in traveling down that road.

As this new generation of women dress for work every morning in their leather fashion uniform of the season, they see only the mean bitch of a boss they hope to be some day!

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Maintaining A Healthy Relationship

It appears to me that a lot of  couples these days, forget who they started out being. Many couples forget their roots. Once they start to live together, they seem to gradually lose the bonds that attracted them in the first place. Why is that?  Is it change, or is it terminal dis-interestry?  I don't think so. So why the drift? The truth is we just get too comfortable, and no longer put forth  the effort  that we did in the beginning. To repair the damage, an active program of preventative maintenance is required.

Think about your relationship, and how you and your lover interacted when the relationship was new—you will likely find that you had a lot more intimacy in the early days of your relationship. This would include more phone calls, texting, touching, kissing and other endearments . Those early connections not only moved the relationship forward initially, they are also instrumental in keeping the relationship fresh now.  It all used to come so easy with the excitement of having a new partner - do we have to let that excitement die? Some relationships were never meant to last, but of those that are, it is important that we actively pursue success.  Stress is the usual place to put the blame, but that is not always applicable.  All these issues were probably the same ones we've  dealt with in the past that made us closer in the first place.

If we are like most couples, we just get lazy. Both partners get into their comfort zone, and let things go,and before you know it their at that point where they never thought they'd be. Men might get in the habit of checking out other women and not paying attention to the one they are with.  Now, I am not putting any blame here - women can be guilty of this also. The issue is that we start to neglect each other in small ways that end up being very significant in the long run. We make each other feel less attractive, less desireable and less needed. Most times were even afraid to say something for fear of upsetting the other person even though their actions have made us angry. Both men and women need to be fearless in expressing their disapproval, and faultless in absorbing and trying to understand the complaints.  We must always be sensitive to our partner's feelings - to build a lifelong romance takes work, commitment, understanding and tolerance of each others viewpoints. Here are a few things we can do to make our relationships stay healthy:

1) Go out of your way to complement your partner each day. It will make both of you feel good.
2) Tell them you love them --- sometimes we don't hear this enough
3) Men have to stop staring at other women – it may be conditioned by advertising, but it is just demeaning to your partner. And women need to think about comments that they may make about other guys.
4)  Dishonesty is the root of all relationship dissension – make a habit of telling the truth, even if it might lead to embarrassing explanations.
5) No matter how busy you are, and other than sleeping at night, make sure you set aside at least an hour a day to be alone together
6) Talk to each other and make sure you bring up issues and work them through before they become an insurmountable obstacle.
7) Always start your day off with a kiss, and a hug, and a good morning- it starts your day off on a positive note, and it feels real good too.
8) Be spontaneous- flirt with each other-  a little kissing on a stairwell before work can be rather sexy, and keep your partner thinking about you throughout the day
9) Make sure that you smile and take life as the fun adventure that it is meant to be. You may think that frowning and being serious all the time is a way to get ahead in life, but in actual fact it works against you in your personal life, your relationships and in your professional business life as well.
10)  Make a point of never going to bed angry- whatever is bothering you talk it out, its not worth losing sleep over, and it starts your next day on a negative note. Make some time to snuggle when you get into bed....create a good night ritual. Some couples just get into their own sides of the bed, and that's it. I don't know about you, but  that is not my idea of a Good Night. Take a few moments to caress, and make going to sleep a wonderful thing knowing that you will be waking up beside your Prince or Princess in the morning.

Relationships are hard work but worth the effort. Keep at it so that your relationship becomes more play than work. When it becomes second nature to you, you have truly achieved the epiphany of satisfaction.
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Dating Online – Tips for Success

Online Dating Positives

One of the most amazing things that modern technology has offered to the human race is the entire new way that it is possible to meet someone new. Yes, I am talking about online dating sites. In the hundreds of thousands of years that human beings have been meeting and interacting with each other, there has never been anything that approaches the reach, the utility, and the convenience of online dating.

Up until recently, you were limited to whoever was in your immediate vicinity and social circle. Now, you can meet and woo anyone in the world. The most amazing thing is that you can look through what they say about themselves and shortlist a bunch of people that you are interested in that also have some things in common with you. On top of this, most dating systems have searching algorithms that will help you find all those people in the first place. It is just so amazingly easy.



Cons to Online Dating

Online dating sites are not foolproof. One problem is that people say what they are looking for, but they really do not know exactly what they want. People are much better at saying what they do not want in a partner than they are in saying what they want. Even so, people will often end up falling for someone who has many characteristics that they say they would not touch with a ten foot pole. On top of all that, online dating sites are the victims of members who exaggerate about themselves a lot, or just plain lie. For example, the hot young woman you think you’ve been chatting up online could be a 500 pound rat-catcher from Arsspik, Siberia. Or vise versa. Men and women both tend to post younger and more flattering pictures of themselves before they gained 40 pounds, and had more hair. You will never know if any of the people that you are chatting with are blowing smoke up your butt or not. As well, the person you are considering as a partner may be married, and looking to cheat. You don’t want to be part of that. Better to be involved with someone being honest to you, as well as his or her significant other.

The bigger dating sites will actually have millions of profiles for you to search through, and that is a curse! Even with the computerized help, the task is daunting. How can you zero in better? Of course if you are like me you just need to search for "deaf, dumb, oversexed female who owns liquor store"!



Other Online Dating Recommendations

A name like THREEINCHTOOL is unlikely to gain you much positive attention after all. Chose something that you can mention in mixed company, or better yet, to your minister. Another gem of advice is to let out your personal details gradually. Do not rush it. Slowly let the other person get to know you, and vise-versa. It’s safer. Talk on the phone a few times before meeting in person. Use a phone anonymizing service for the first few calls to protect you from any potential wackos that you might connect with.

Use a recent, accurate picture of yourself. If you present yourself the way that you actually are, there will be no disappointments when you first meet with her, and that will be a plus Do not put up a picture on your profile that you would be ashamed to show in public. You may be tempted to do something daring, but do not. You will only attract the wrong crowd. Also, although dating sites are supposed to be anonymous, pictures are not, and someone you know may recognize you, so do not put up any sort of compromising picture. Never complain about your current situation or your ex. Nobody likes to listen to a complainer. If pressed, admit to making a few mistakes and that you think you have learned from them. Also, make sure that you have more than one person that you are talking to at the same time. So many people stretch the truth in online dating that getting your hopes up on one specific person before you meet them is most likely to end in disappointment. So join several sites, preferably under different online names, and have 4 or 5 people on your active friends list at any one time. It is okay to date more than one person at a time until you are ready to commit. It is expected!

For your first in-person date when meeting someone after chatting online, there are some common sense moves you can make to ensure it goes smoothly. Choose a day date, first off. That way if you don’t hit it off, you can leave and still have your evening free. Second, if your date is not over coffee, set your phone alarm to go off a half hour into the date. That way, if it’s not going well, you can jet with an excuse. Lastly, let them know you’re also seeing other people. It is best to be honest, and ask them for the same thing.

If you have picked well, you have a strong chance of achieving instant chemistry, and potentially a lifetime of happiness. Bon Chance!


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These Shoes Were Made For BDSM

Where will women's foot fashion go next.

Lately, women are squeezing their agonized tootsies into BDSM booties and walking down their community streets looking like something out of some blue movie.

The Femdoms of fashion have determined that BDSM chic has supplanted the former heroin chic thus making fashion slaves look as if they are posing for some Nazi recruiting poster.

In most places, women’s sandals have evolved into something the Boston Strangler would wear if he were into cross-dressing. Even the fashion blogs have trouble describing these bondage booties for BDSM babes.

Bondage and BDSM in general is the anchor for this outlandish style shift. I guess it only follows after the punk chic types of fem fashion you see in the music and recording scene. One blog describes it as: “Like so many other things that were only recently considered too sexually charged to see the light of day, in a few short years the leather harness has infiltrated the realms of what we consider fashionable.”

Gotta love that if you are a warm blooded male!

The tentative beginnings of BDSM fashion a couple of years ago was simple leather clothes and metal accessories.  Currently it has moved to more explicit representation of dominatrix chic apparel. Soon, every self-respecting secretary will feel the need to parade in the office in jack boots, a leather uniform and dual whips. Every boss's wet dream I am sure.

Perhaps there will soon be a whole line of de rigueur white collar workforce product accessories!
New catalogs of products might include: executive tie down desks, captive chairs, whipping posts, employee discipline whips, punishment stocks! What better way to discipline recalcitrant employees! Just think about it! If you start hiring employees with a BDSM bent, then they would consider it a job perk.

I guess my mind has wandered too much as I see this poor wretches hobble along. I cannot help but wonder though. What are you ladies toking?  Boycott this crap! You cannot lose, because you have already lost your dignity! Strike a blow for sensible shoes!

Suffragettes and equal rights demonstrators of past ages are turning over in their graves appalled at this trend.

As this new generation of women dress for work every morning in their leather fashion uniform of the season, they see only the mean bitch of a boss they hope to be some day!

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