Showing posts with label Bondage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Bondage. Show all posts

Friday, February 10, 2012

These Shoes Were Made For BDSM



Where will women's foot fashion go next.

Women around the world are squishing their footsies into bondage booties and wandering around the various pathways in their lives looking like something out of some kinky skin flick.

It would seem that the fembots of fashion have determined that bondage BDSM chic has supplanted heroin chic thus making women everywhere look as if their feet have been ensnared by intertwining snakes.

In many locals, women’s shoes have evolved into something the Boston Strangler would wear if he were into cross-dressing. Even the fashion blogs have trouble describing these bondage booties for BDSM babes.

Bondage and BDSM is the basis for this crazy ride on the wild side of fashion. Probably this is just the natural (unnatural?) outcome after the punk chic types of female role models you see in the recording industry. One blog, takes the wraps off the whole sordid affair: “Like so many other things that were only recently considered too sexually charged to see the light of day, in a few short years the leather harness has infiltrated the realms of what we consider fashionable.”

Gotta love that if you are a warm blooded male!

The tentative beginnings of BDSM fashion a couple of years ago was simple leather clothes and metal accessories.  Now it has moved on to leather harnesses reminiscent of Ilsa of the SS. Soon, every self-respecting personal assistant will feel the compulsion to parade in the office in jack boots, a leather uniform and dual whips. Every boss's fantasy I am sure.

Perhaps there will soon be a whole line of de rigueur workplace accouterments!
New catalog offerings might consist of: captive visitor chairs, whipping posts, leather whips, prisoner stocks, and tie down desks! What better way to discipline recalcitrant employees! Just think about it! If you hire the right types of people up front, they might actually enjoy the exercise rather than complain to the local labor board! This could be an entirely new job perk, both for subby employees and dom bosses.

I guess my mind has wandered too much as I see this poor wretches hobble along. I cannot help but wonder though. What the heck are you women thinking about?  Boycott this crap! You have nothing to lose but your bodycon, leather, studs and chains (not to mention your harnesses)! Run, don't walk to the closest white cross shoe outlet and get some sensible shoes back in your life!

Generations of women fought for equality in the workplace, for control over their own bodies and for a right to self-determination. But did that fight include the right to orthopedic surgery? I suppose it must have since so many women seem so hell bent in traveling down that road.

As this new generation of women dress for work every morning in their leather fashion uniform of the season, they see only the mean bitch of a boss they hope to be some day!

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Friday, January 6, 2012

Maintaining A Healthy Relationship



It appears to me that a lot of  couples these days, forget who they started out being. Many couples forget their roots. Once they start to live together, they seem to gradually lose the bonds that attracted them in the first place. Why is that?  Is it change, or is it terminal dis-interestry?  I don't think so. So why the drift? The truth is we just get too comfortable, and no longer put forth  the effort  that we did in the beginning. To repair the damage, an active program of preventative maintenance is required.

Think about your relationship, and how you and your lover interacted when the relationship was new—you will likely find that you had a lot more intimacy in the early days of your relationship. This would include more phone calls, texting, touching, kissing and other endearments . Those early connections not only moved the relationship forward initially, they are also instrumental in keeping the relationship fresh now.  It all used to come so easy with the excitement of having a new partner - do we have to let that excitement die? Some relationships were never meant to last, but of those that are, it is important that we actively pursue success.  Stress is the usual place to put the blame, but that is not always applicable.  All these issues were probably the same ones we've  dealt with in the past that made us closer in the first place.

If we are like most couples, we just get lazy. Both partners get into their comfort zone, and let things go,and before you know it their at that point where they never thought they'd be. Men might get in the habit of checking out other women and not paying attention to the one they are with.  Now, I am not putting any blame here - women can be guilty of this also. The issue is that we start to neglect each other in small ways that end up being very significant in the long run. We make each other feel less attractive, less desireable and less needed. Most times were even afraid to say something for fear of upsetting the other person even though their actions have made us angry. Both men and women need to be fearless in expressing their disapproval, and faultless in absorbing and trying to understand the complaints.  We must always be sensitive to our partner's feelings - to build a lifelong romance takes work, commitment, understanding and tolerance of each others viewpoints. Here are a few things we can do to make our relationships stay healthy:

1) Go out of your way to complement your partner each day. It will make both of you feel good.
2) Tell them you love them --- sometimes we don't hear this enough
3) Men have to stop staring at other women – it may be conditioned by advertising, but it is just demeaning to your partner. And women need to think about comments that they may make about other guys.
4)  Dishonesty is the root of all relationship dissension – make a habit of telling the truth, even if it might lead to embarrassing explanations.
5) No matter how busy you are, and other than sleeping at night, make sure you set aside at least an hour a day to be alone together
6) Talk to each other and make sure you bring up issues and work them through before they become an insurmountable obstacle.
7) Always start your day off with a kiss, and a hug, and a good morning- it starts your day off on a positive note, and it feels real good too.
8) Be spontaneous- flirt with each other-  a little kissing on a stairwell before work can be rather sexy, and keep your partner thinking about you throughout the day
9) Make sure that you smile and take life as the fun adventure that it is meant to be. You may think that frowning and being serious all the time is a way to get ahead in life, but in actual fact it works against you in your personal life, your relationships and in your professional business life as well.
10)  Make a point of never going to bed angry- whatever is bothering you talk it out, its not worth losing sleep over, and it starts your next day on a negative note. Make some time to snuggle when you get into bed....create a good night ritual. Some couples just get into their own sides of the bed, and that's it. I don't know about you, but  that is not my idea of a Good Night. Take a few moments to caress, and make going to sleep a wonderful thing knowing that you will be waking up beside your Prince or Princess in the morning.

Relationships are hard work but worth the effort. Keep at it so that your relationship becomes more play than work. When it becomes second nature to you, you have truly achieved the epiphany of satisfaction.
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Sunday, October 30, 2011

These Shoes Were Made For BDSM

Where will women's foot fashion go next.

Lately, women are squeezing their agonized tootsies into BDSM booties and walking down their community streets looking like something out of some blue movie.

The Femdoms of fashion have determined that BDSM chic has supplanted the former heroin chic thus making fashion slaves look as if they are posing for some Nazi recruiting poster.

In most places, women’s sandals have evolved into something the Boston Strangler would wear if he were into cross-dressing. Even the fashion blogs have trouble describing these bondage booties for BDSM babes.

Bondage and BDSM in general is the anchor for this outlandish style shift. I guess it only follows after the punk chic types of fem fashion you see in the music and recording scene. One blog describes it as: “Like so many other things that were only recently considered too sexually charged to see the light of day, in a few short years the leather harness has infiltrated the realms of what we consider fashionable.”

Gotta love that if you are a warm blooded male!

The tentative beginnings of BDSM fashion a couple of years ago was simple leather clothes and metal accessories.  Currently it has moved to more explicit representation of dominatrix chic apparel. Soon, every self-respecting secretary will feel the need to parade in the office in jack boots, a leather uniform and dual whips. Every boss's wet dream I am sure.

Perhaps there will soon be a whole line of de rigueur white collar workforce product accessories!
New catalogs of products might include: executive tie down desks, captive chairs, whipping posts, employee discipline whips, punishment stocks! What better way to discipline recalcitrant employees! Just think about it! If you start hiring employees with a BDSM bent, then they would consider it a job perk.

I guess my mind has wandered too much as I see this poor wretches hobble along. I cannot help but wonder though. What are you ladies toking?  Boycott this crap! You cannot lose, because you have already lost your dignity! Strike a blow for sensible shoes!

Suffragettes and equal rights demonstrators of past ages are turning over in their graves appalled at this trend.

As this new generation of women dress for work every morning in their leather fashion uniform of the season, they see only the mean bitch of a boss they hope to be some day!

Want to know more about BDSM?

Check this link out!

BDSM Dating